Acceptance —
Life can be hard sometimes, well most times if anyone else can relate. The most painful thing you can experience is letting go, letting go of things we have planned, things in our mind that we want accordingly, but that’s not how life works. You can’t have everything you want and how you plan it, it’s almost impossible (nothing is impossible). However, we need to be able to let go of the life we have planned, things we have planned in our heads, we can play it in our minds over and over again. But to be able to move on in life and be able to grow you have to come to terms to accept not everything you want you will get but don’t let that put you down, because eventually you will have everything you want but due in TIME.
Time is key in life and being acceptance in life works accordingly, you will have your happiness and be able to grow into the woman/ man you ought to be. Everything happening right now will help you and shape you into the great person you will be, so don’t sit there and blame others for things going on in your life that is not going with the life you planned out and that you envisioned. But instead use that to motivate you to grow and accept the life that is waiting for you.
Something great out there will eventually come to you, right now you might not be able to see it as you are blinded by the life you had planned, that life you sit down laying in your bed and you know step by step how you want it to be, how it is going to happen. But instead of mentally putting stress on yourself thinking stage by stage of the life you had planned and you can’t let go of that life as it didn’t go accordingly, now you are ruminating. Use that motivation of the life you had planned, that you were excited about and ACCEPT the life that is waiting for you.
Something great out there will happen and you will be in utter shock that you couldn’t let go of the life you originally had planned and finally accept the one that was waiting for you all along.
A Gentle Reminder by N 